Meet our boardmembers

Our board of directors brings together a diverse group of leaders united by a shared commitment to advancing understanding, inclusion, and support for the neurodiverse community. Each member contributes unique expertise and perspective, helping to guide our mission with vision, integrity, and compassion. Together, they provide the leadership and direction that ensures our organization continues to grow, serve, and make a lasting impact.

Nathaniel Yeary - Founder & President

Having grown up with neurodiversity in my family, and now raising a neurodivergent child of my own, I’ve come to see challenges as chances to approach life in new ways. These experiences guide me every day, and if they can make the path a little easier for someone else, then I feel I’m doing what I’m meant to do. Above all else, what matters to me is being the best father, husband, and friend I can be.

Daphne Soto - Co-Founder & Marketing Director

I am the founder and owner of SAIL Coaching & Consulting, LLC, and co-founder of the non-profit LOTUS. After serving my country for over 25 years in the military and working in the field of human resources, I had a calling to continue helping others. I completed my Masters of Arts in Professional Mental Health Counseling from Webster University and began working with young adults diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder (ASD–Level 1) or other learning differences. For over 5 years, I have dedicated my time to working with neurodivergent young adults as a mentor, helping them to recognize and achieve their personal, professional, and academic goals.

Initially, upon graduation, my intent was to pursue licensure in the state of Florida. However, after serving as a consultant for therapists, I recognized that a life coach was more inline with what I wanted to do–collaborate with children, young adults and their parents to achieve their goals and passions utilizing a support system that addresses several areas of growth and development. Even more so, I recognized resources were scarce for individuals beyond their formative years, and programs that could accommodate their needs were beyond many family’s price range. This led me to wanting others to SAIL, that is, find Serenity. Affirmation. Insight. Life. in a way that motivates them to discover their purpose.

Arlena Brookins - Vice President

I am Arlena Brookins, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and the owner of Brookins Outpatient Consulting, LLC, where I provide mental health services to Florida residents both virtually and in person. Originally from Philadelphia, PA, I left home to attend Hampton University, earning my Bachelor of Science in Accounting while also participating in ROTC. I went on to serve 24 years in the military, and after retiring, I felt called to redirect my career toward caring for others in a more personal and meaningful way. This led me to complete my Master of Social Work at the University of Southern California, with a focus on supporting children, youth, and families. For more than eight years, I have worked with individuals and families experiencing substance abuse, trauma, depression, and anxiety, and I expanded my practice to include the neurodivergent community about six years ago. I am passionate about this work and deeply fulfilled by helping people navigate challenges, build resilience, and improve their overall well-being.

Cady Milley - Treasurer

Bio and Photo coming soon!

Jacqueline Vanderby

Jacqueline Vanderby, M.S., is a compassionate counselor and life coach with over three years of experience working with neurodivergent individuals. She holds a Master’s in Clinical Mental Health and is dedicated to helping clients build confidence, independence, and meaningful connections. Before joining LOTUS, Jacqueline worked at a domestic violence shelter, where she assisted individuals in finding critical resources and rebuilding their lives.